A Post-Thanksgiving Look At The Superpower Of Gratitude

Gratitude is a secret sauce that enriches the lives of everyone it touches

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Last week, many of us celebrated Thanksgiving with turkey, stuffing, and a side of (American) football. While it’s a joyful time with family, it’s also a chance to reflect on the holiday’s true essence: gratitude. Let me begin by sharing some of mine.

First, I’m incredibly thankful for my amazing family, which has grown in recent years to include a wonderful son-in-law and daughter-in-law. I’m also deeply grateful for the support of my friends and colleagues—many of whom have become both over time.

And finally, thank you to all of you who follow my work. Your encouragement fuels my passion and strengthens my belief that together, we can make a meaningful impact on the world.

In this newsletter, I discuss how gratitude serves as a leadership superpower and, in the Humanity at Scale Update section, share exciting news about the latest wave of my group mentorship program.

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Gratitude: A Leadership Superpower

Gratitude is often dismissed as merely a polite gesture or fleeting feeling, but science shows it’s far more impactful. It’s a transformative force that rewires our brains, strengthens relationships, and creates a ripple effect of positivity. For leaders, gratitude isn’t just a nicety—it’s a powerful tool that can inspire teams, build trust, and elevate organizational culture.

Gratitude Creates Happiness

One of the core insights of positive psychology is this:

It’s not happy people who are thankful; it’s thankful people who are happy.

In other words, gratitude generates happiness—a vital mindset for any leader seeking to foster a thriving organization.

What is Gratitude?

So, what exactly is gratitude? I appreciate this thoughtful definition from PositivePsychology.com:

Gratitude has a dual meaning: a worldly one and a transcendent one. In its worldly sense, gratitude is a feeling that occurs in interpersonal exchanges when one person acknowledges receiving a valuable benefit from another. Gratitude is a cognitive-affective state typically associated with the perception that one has received a personal benefit that was not intentionally sought after, deserved, or earned but rather because of the good intentions of another person.

Gratitude acts like a wonder drug. Research shows that it strengthens the immune system, reduces stress, lessens pain, and boosts professional and academic performance. And unlike most drugs, gratitude comes with no side effects.

The Science of Gratitude

Here’s what happens in your brain when you practice gratitude:

1. It triggers a chemical boost. Gratitude releases dopamine and serotonin—the “feel-good” chemicals. This lifts your mood and reinforces positive behavior, making you more likely to recognize and appreciate the good around you.

2. It lowers stress. Gratitude reduces cortisol, the stress hormone, helping you stay calm and resilient even under pressure.

3. It rewires your thinking. Practicing gratitude strengthens neural pathways for positivity, making it easier to see opportunities rather than just problems.

How Gratitude Impacts Leadership

When leaders embody genuine gratitude, they transform workplace dynamics in powerful ways:

• It builds trust and connection. Gratitude makes people feel seen and valued, fostering stronger relationships and greater collaboration.

• It boosts motivation. Employees who feel appreciated are more engaged and willing to go the extra mile. A heartfelt “thank you” can inspire extraordinary effort.

• It creates a positive culture. Leaders who model gratitude encourage others to follow suit, cultivating a workplace where respect and support thrive.

Why Gratitude Matters

Gratitude is more than a personal practice—it’s a leadership superpower. It fortifies your mindset, deepens your relationships, and inspires your team to perform at their best. By embedding gratitude into your leadership style, you can foster a culture where people feel valued, connected, and motivated to excel.

And here’s the best part: gratitude is contagious. When you express it, it spreads, creating a ripple effect that can transform not just individuals but entire organizations.

Gratitude in Action

Consider Indra Nooyi, the former CEO of PepsiCo. She made a habit of writing thank-you letters to the parents of her senior executives, recognizing the values they instilled in their children. This simple, thoughtful gesture had a profound impact—employees felt valued not just for their work but for who they were as people.

On a smaller scale, think about the power of a leader taking a moment to acknowledge someone’s contribution. A specific note, such as: “Your creativity on this project was the key to its success—thank you” can leave a lasting impression and reinforce a sense of purpose.

Sparking New Leadership Thinking

If you’re thinking, “That sounds great, but how do I actually do this?”—here are a few practical ways to bring gratitude into your leadership:

1. Start with small, specific thank-yous.
   Instead of generic praise like, “Good job,” try something more personal: “Thank you for staying late to finalize that presentation. Your attention to detail made a big difference.” Being specific shows you’re paying attention and genuinely value their efforts.

2. Create rituals for gratitude.
   Build gratitude into your routine. Start team meetings with a quick round of shout-outs or write a weekly email recognizing individual contributions. These small habits add up over time.

3. Encourage peer-to-peer recognition.
   Gratitude shouldn’t just come from the top. Create opportunities for team members to thank each other, whether through informal shout-outs or a dedicated Slack channel for appreciation.

4. Use tough moments to reflect on what’s good.
   Even during challenging times, there’s room for gratitude. Maybe it’s thanking your team for their resilience or recognizing the lessons learned. Gratitude in tough moments shows strength and inspires optimism.

5. Model gratitude daily.
   As a leader, you set the tone. When you consistently express gratitude, it becomes contagious. Your actions encourage others to follow suit, creating a culture of appreciation across the organization.

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Additional Resources

Here’s some relevant content on gratitude that you may find interesting:

• The Neuroscience of Gratitude and Effects on the Brain. This article in Positive Psychology delves into how gratitude practices can rewire the brain, enhancing mental health and well-being.

• Gratitude and Its Impact on the Brain and Body. This article in Psychology Today explores how gratitude influences neurological functions and overall health.

• Christina Costa: How Gratitude Rewires Your Brain. This Ted Talk with psychologist Christina Costa shares her personal journey of applying gratitude practices during a challenging time, highlighting how gratitude can reshape our neural pathways and enhance resilience.

In addition, here’s a recent article that I enjoyed:

• Power to the people managers: We need more CEOs well versed in HR. This article by Richard Harpin in The Times advocates for more CEOs with HR expertise, emphasizing the value of people-focused leadership in fostering empathy and effective team management.

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Humanity at Scale Update

I’m very excited to announce the latest wave of my group mentoring, which I’m calling the “Humanity At Scale Mentorship Program.” It’s focused on inspiring and empowering leaders and emerging leaders to create humanity-centric organizations. Applications need to be submitted by December 18th for the program which will run from January through June 2025. The format will follow my previous waves, with a combination of large group meetings, small group discussions, and one-on-ones. As always, there is no charge for the program.

We’ve also finalized the name of my podcast, “Humanity At Scale: Leadership Redefined,” and picked some cool music for the opening and closing. We’re targeting a January launch, so we’re now working on the format and guest list. My stretch goal is to eventually get Oprah on the show. I’d love to hear about any guests that you think would be great… or any help you can provide in engaging Oprah :-)

As I turn my attention to planning for 2025, let me know if you’re looking for a keynote speaker for your internal or external events.

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Humanity at Scale is a movement to inspire and empower leaders to create humanity-centric organizations